Tuesday, April 29, 2014

CHOOSE A PROOFREADER FOR YOUR LIFE


Proverbs 12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.
When writing a paper, an article or a book, it is very important that you give it to someone else to proofread, edit and critique.  As the author, you are too close to the writing to proof with a clear mind.  You will read things in that are not there because the context and meaning are in your head.  It is equally important that your proofreader be proficient in the language, reading, spelling, grammar, and contextual critique. 

I enrolled in a writing course in college that was held at an offsite classroom.  The class was filled with kids just out of high school, who apparently had never written a coherent paper in their short life.  When it came time to correct and critique papers, I was faced with the impossible task of proofreading a paper that did not contain one complete sentence or thought, without embarrassing the writer.  The person proofing my paper simply handed it back and said, “good writing.”  But was it?  I received an “A” in the class but was never sure if it was deserved or if the teacher was just happy to be able to read a clear paper.

It is equally important that you be prepared to listen to constructive criticism.  I know the writing is a “piece of you,” that you want to protect and nurture but you have asked for wise counsel because you want this writing to be the best ever.  Be prepared to correct the spelling and grammar mistakes.  You may even have to rewrite portions because although it makes perfect sense to you, your reader may not have a clue as to what you are trying to convey.  Go ahead, shed your tears, soothe your wounds, then get busy and rewrite.  It is a risk to involve someone else’s thoughts in “your baby’s life” but your writing will be better and you will have learned a lot during the process.
Proverbs 19:20 Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.

The Writing of your Life continues and a new chapter is begun the minute you get out of bed.  Sometimes we “write” without ever taking the time before we close our eyes to read over the day’s installment.  We keep it close, stroke and protect the story of our life, setting it on the shelf, safe between its lovely covers, to be admired; but not too closely.  I would say that most of us never open its contents and invite another person to proofread and critique the “story of our life.” 

There are many voices that swirl around us daily in a cacophony of noise.  Many of those voices are only too happy to speak into our lives.  BE CAREFUL!!!  It is a good idea to proofread their life before you allow them to proofread your “life story.”  Are they are proficient in the “language?”  Is their life sealed tightly against any criticism or wise counsel?  You will never become an expert proofreader of someone else’s life until you open your own life to proofreading.
It is important that we all seek Wise Counsel; a “Proofreader” in our lives.  Choose prayerfully and wisely THEN listen, accept the critique and make the corrections.  You will grow, your story will be improved and your “readers” will thank you.

Friday, April 25, 2014

HOW TO BE A BLESSING TO A HOME MISSION PASTOR


I spent some time talking with a Home Missions Pastor and wife this week and having been there myself 2 or 3 times, I was reminded of some important facts.
1.   Home Mission Pastors and wives often feel ignored and insignificant.  If you Pastor a church of more than 50 people, take time and make it a point to go over and speak to them.  Even better invite them to sit with you and fellowship with you after service.
2.  Home Mission Pastors and wives struggle with feelings of failure.  Surprise them with a visit to one of their services.  You would not believe how encouraging it is to see familiar faces walk in the door, especially people that know how to worship and Amen the message.  AND PLEASE, leave a nice offering; they are probably funding most of the expenses on their own.

3.  Home Mission Pastors and wives are fully aware that they do not have exciting programs, cutting edge technology and glorious music backing a praise team.  Participate in the service; sing the songs, worship, back the preaching with a few amens and pray in the altar service.  After the service, encourage them, tell them the things you enjoyed, keep their deficiencies to yourself AND PLEASE, DO NOT brag about everything that you are doing right.
4.  Home Mission Pastors and wives have usually tried a lot of things to attract new people; most of them haven’t worked out the best.  They welcome fresh suggestions as long as they are not offered in a condescending manner.  BETTER YET, offer to bring a team over and help them with a service or canvass a neighborhood or whatever other suggestion you have.

5.  Home Mission Pastors and wives find that Sunday afternoon can be one of the most discouraging times of the week.  It may be that their attendance was “our four and no more” or a person they have been ministering to has a “backset.”  Facebook on Sunday afternoon is full of success stories and how wonderful everyone’s morning service turned out; although, they will never post it on Facebook, many of the services do not reach the height of expectation of a Home Mission Pastor.  So please continue to post your glorious reports, but take the time to email or call a Home Mission Pastor with an encouraging word AND PLEASE DO NOT ask him how his service was today. 
6.  Home Mission Pastors and wives may celebrate success on a smaller scale than you and the celebrations may be few and far between.  If you read a post that is celebrating a success, CELEBRATE with them. REMEMBER, it isn't a contest, NEVER, EVER, try to trump their success by posting one of your own as a comment.  Keep your success as posts on your own page and give them their little moment of glory.
7.  Home Mission Pastors and wives can feel so lonely and they need the fellowship of other ministers and their wives.  They look forward to conferences and fellowship meetings but they also dread the inevitable question, “How many are you running, now?”  They will smile and in an upbeat manner report to you the biggest attendance they have had since they began.  PLEASE DO NOT put them in this situation; NEVER ask a Home Mission Pastor “How many they are running, now.”  If they don’t volunteer the information, leave it alone. Ask about their kids, their grandkids, parents or fishing trip, but NEVER, NEVER ask for an attendance report.
There are many ways to be a friend and encourager to a Home Mission Pastor and wife.  Look at their situation, put yourself in their place for a moment and give them what you would like to receive.  God Bless all that have followed the Call of God to Home Missions.